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Sex before marriage
09-15-2010, 06:52 PM
Post: #21
RE: Sex before marriage
(09-12-2010 01:09 PM)Jenova Wrote:  Thank you to Fiona and Scary girl, sometimes i feel that though God forgives me, I still cant forgive myself, but I am learning to forgive myself.

@ Isis, im wont be getting married anytime soon, but when I do, it will be religious, probably a ceremony in a church.

Don't feel bad, i think in todays society things have to happen in order for us to realize that the grass isn't always as green on the other side of the fence. So once we do settle down with Mr/Mrs Right, we will not be curious, and have to run to do the things we should have done when we were young and single....

Hopefully this makes sense. Icontexto-emoticons-01-032x032

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09-16-2010, 01:18 AM
Post: #22
RE: Sex before marriage
(09-12-2010 05:39 AM)Jenova Wrote:  I dont know who to ask about this, it is personal and so there's no one i know that i could tell about this and still feel comfortable, if someone has sex before marriage, but has realised it was a sin to do so, and asks God for forgiveness, will they still be deemed worthy to enter Heaven?

Please help

Be comfortable and okay with yourself and all will be fine. No need to give yourself a guilt complex about it darlin. Worry about doing right by yourself and others, heaven will take care of itself.

I personally think sexual compatability is important in a lifetime commitment and should be looked into beforehand lol.

But I also have a MUCH different idea of what "sin" is than most.

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09-16-2010, 06:04 PM
Post: #23
RE: Sex before marriage
To the original poster the answer is yes, your still good.

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09-17-2010, 01:43 PM
Post: #24
RE: Sex before marriage
You were unworthy to enter heaven before you slept with him. That's why Jesus had to come & sacrifice His blood. God loved you before and He loves you no less now then when He created you.

You know that Jesus will forgive you and if you really believe that He has then there's no longer a reason to hold unforgiveness against yourself or feel unclean in any way. If you were to believe that you are now more unworthy or have less value, which are both lies, then it'll be twice as hard not to do it again. You are for more valuable then you know Smile
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09-18-2010, 06:17 AM
Post: #25
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thank you Archangel. Jesus did die for our sins and we wouldnt be human if we didnt make mistakes, but I can definetly say that I can sleep much easier now. thank you again

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09-18-2010, 07:13 AM
Post: #26
RE: Sex before marriage
I think that sex before marriage is alright SO LONG AS the two participating ADULT HUMAN BEINGS love each other truly. How can it EVER be wrong if they do? Marriage is only a ceremony to show everyone "hey, look, we love each other a lot!", not necesarrily a binding ceremony.
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09-18-2010, 09:33 AM
Post: #27
RE: Sex before marriage
Im sure somewhere in the Bible it says that a woman should be a virgin until she marries, I cant put my finger on the scripture.

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09-19-2010, 12:43 AM
Post: #28
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I'm going to have to lean on AngelSlayerPagan's but you need to know 100% that the person who have taken your virginity is the man or woman you want to be committed and bond to.

As in you know you would marry that person and die with them in old age right that second before it being considered "ok" in God's eyes.
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09-19-2010, 12:53 AM
Post: #29
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(09-19-2010 12:43 AM)Wondering_Zombie Wrote:  I'm going to have to lean on AngelSlayerPagan's but you need to know 100% that the person who have taken your virginity is the man or woman you want to be committed and bond to.

As in you know you would marry that person and die with them in old age right that second before it being considered "ok" in God's eyes.

Well, we parted ways early this year due to personal problems.

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09-19-2010, 01:10 AM
Post: #30
RE: Sex before marriage
And I'm sure God rather see you part ways than suffer because you wanted to be "right in the eyes of the Bible".

I'm a firm believer that God isn't as strict as the Bible or religions teach. (And this is coming from a girl who grew up going through a Catholic private school and has been confirmed.) We're human; we have human desires and we're going to make mistakes. I'm sure if God were to look at your situation, he'd see that you didn't "do it" out of wanting just sex. There were feelings and emotions there but things turned out wrong. I highly doubt God would condemn you to hell for it.
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