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Please - this is my 2nd post. I need help/or where to go for help
Dark is right. Unfortunately, this is a talk site. We troubleshoot, we don't solve problems. By and large, any of the real problems that are faced (supernaturally) are dealt with in person, and by professionals. We're here to try and figure out what kind of problem you might have.

As per the police, you said it took 5 officers to detain him. If he wasn't resisting, it wouldn't take more than 1 or 2 to detain him. Thus, why would there be 5 people in the mix. If he was resisting (in order to require 5 officers), then he would have been charged. If he wasn't charged, then it wasn't all that serious. In other words: He acted out. Police were called. He got scared that he would get in actual trouble, and then he quickly changed his tune to not end up in jail. That sounds more like attention-seeking behaviour to me. Which kind of brings me back to my reply to your first thread. Perhaps, he isn't exactly the best type of person to surround yourself with.
(05-25-2018, 08:46 AM)Skylar Wrote:
(05-25-2018, 08:33 AM)Darkforeboding Wrote: You keep posting and asking what you should do.  If you don't feel secure and feel afraid to go to your boyfriends' house, then you probably shouldn't go.

I've been with him for 4 years and this last year I've seen him 1 time. He doesn't understand my fear. He's veryuoset that we haven't seen each other in a year.  I guess I was hoping maybe someone could relate to what I am experiencing and suggest a number to call or something but I guess not. It seems like it's impossible to get the correct help from anyone. 

(I only posted twice since it seemed I wasn't believed. I am a person that wants to help people I care about. I'm sorry I posted the same one twice. I tried but it wouldn't allow me to  delete the other post. Then I realized I made so many typos - I apologize. I'm on a tiny cell phone)
Perhaps you have been getting the correct help this whole time.
Help for yourself, not for him.
If he really hasn't seen you in that long, then that isn't someone you need to be caring for. Sure, he is upset he hasn't seen you for a year, he is also summoning demons.
So if you want help; Help YOURSELF and stay away. You can chose to accept the help that is being given to you, or you can continue to dig yourself deeper.
Please remember there actually are people who can help if he refuses to leave you alone or tries to come near you. There IS correct help for that
Contradictions aside. Stay away.
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Skylar, the isn't much if anything that anyone here on the forum can offer to do for you (or your boyfriend.) It's best left to the professionals. This is simply a discussion forum. The folks here have offered ideas and have treated you with nothing less than compassion.

I suggest you follow up with the priest and heed his recommendations in documenting any episodes. He will first need convinced there is an issue in order to get a demonologist involved. The church will require extensive psychological testing...testing is absolutely not done during protective safety holds (pink slips) in psychiatric units. Their job is to stabilize the patient and get them back to a safe state of mind. Testing takes hours and is always done in a controlled clinical setting. A thorough medical evaluation including extensive lab work will also be required before the church will agree to work with you. You don't just make a phone call and bam, there's a priest and a bishop. It doesn't work like that.

We can offer you an ear, moral support and a sounding board here, but otherwise there's no quick fix. Your boyfriend will have to be vigilant in continuing to seek help in the proper avenues.

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