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making contact. Is it possible??
#1
Hello everyone!
Just pondering on how the mind is an amazing thing. And yet we use so little of its capacity. When do we "stop knowing"? Without getting too heavy with my own thoughts, I often wonder about the 'real' ability to make contact with loved ones we have lost. My father past away 4 yrs ago, from old age and bad lungs. He was an amazing person and i miss him dearly. I would love to try and attempt a situation to either feel his presence or have some kind of vision of him. Of course without freaking myself out in the process lol.. I must admit I have attempted at times before sleep to 'wish or hope' he makes somesort of contact with me. To date I have had no success. This I often suppose can be a consequence where, once a person passes this life as we know it, they begin a new form of existence where contact is not possible or 'they' are not bound by our desires or thoughts. In other words, perhaps when we die, we no longer hold the same values, or thought processess. We perhaps disengage from all things that held us in the physical world. Who knows? Anyway, I would love to hear opinions and if anyone has a method to safely contact a past loved one. Once again if it is within our capacity living the existence that is our first stage of the physical life!
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(07-17-2014, 07:01 AM)maria Wrote: Hello everyone!
Just pondering on how the mind is an amazing thing. And yet we use so little of its capacity. When do we "stop knowing"? Without getting too heavy with my own thoughts, I often wonder about the 'real' ability to make contact with loved ones we have lost. My father past away 4 yrs ago, from old age and bad lungs. He was an amazing person and i miss him dearly. I would love to try and attempt a situation to either feel his presence or have some kind of vision of him. Of course without freaking myself out in the process lol.. I must admit I have attempted at times before sleep to 'wish or hope' he makes somesort of contact with me. To date I have had no success. This I often suppose can be a consequence where, once a person passes this life as we know it, they begin a new form of existence where contact is not possible or 'they' are not bound by our desires or thoughts. In other words, perhaps when we die, we no longer hold the same values, or thought processess. We perhaps disengage from all things that held us in the physical world. Who knows? Anyway, I would love to hear opinions and if anyone has a method to safely contact a past loved one. Once again if it is within our capacity living the existence that is our first stage of the physical life!

Maybe you can try to ask someone else with the proper ability to be your medium. I think it's quite safe this way Smile
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#3
Mediums can contact people who have died, but toooooo many of them are frauds. Sorry. I get the feeling that you can contact him yourself, if you wish to. You might not hear an answer, but I think loved ones do seem to be able to drop by, if needed.

If you're not psychic or sensitive, (I'm not, myself) then it can be very tricky to receive the messages he might be trying to send.

Your best bet is to find an honest medium (they do exist) and work with them. Don't tell them too much. Let them talk to you and tell YOU what they get.

PS
Mediumship is just one narrow part of the range of psychic ability. If you are looking for one, sometimes a good place to start is a spiritualist church.
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#4
Our loved ones (including pets) often do come and visit, if you're not sensitive to energies you may not be aware of them but that doesn't mean they haven't visited you. You can sometimes meet them in dream state and you'll know the difference between an ordinary dream to a contact one once you've experienced it Smile
You walk in the long grass and wonder why you can not see!!
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#5
I don't know if you believe in God or not but for me I always take comfort in being able to meet them again in heaven again. I won't waste much time in trying to make contact. I believe there are possible strong enough mediums who could help you but they are far and between. I also believe in what pix said. They visit you all the time, but you just aren't aware. So can comfort that they are still there with you in all the big moments, and moments you don't know. You can pray for them to visit you in your sleep because that's a possibility. I believe my sister has visited me in a dream and offered comforting words. Just live life because it's short.
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#6
I feel like this should not be under "reincarnation" but I still am intrigued by this post.

I will just share a story about my own experience.

My grandma passed away shortly before my high school graduation in 2012. She was in her 90s, and had been going to the hospital for the usual, falling and hurting herself, and sometimes trouble breathing, things like that. She moved in with my aunt, so she could be better cared for.
We all went to the hospital when they told us she might pass, and she pulled through and she even started acting like herself again. Then, suddenly, she started acting strange and she passed away. She was DNR, but someone tried to resuscitate anyway (which we were upset about of course), but she still passed.
It was horrible, and my whole family was depressed, especially my mom, as my grandma was her mother.
I started having terrifying nightmares after the viewing and funeral. I would wake up crying hysterically. They were so awful, with her at the viewing sitting up and it was not her. It was something very dark... I would even have these terrible visions while awake, which was worse.
One night, I was scared and I did not know why. I could not close my eyes for more than a few minutes, or get much sleep at all.
But, once I finally fell asleep for a while, I suddenly awoke and I felt this overwhelming presence. Nothing touched me, but I just felt my grandma there. I could even smell her. I sat up and I just felt very happy and calm and was no longer afraid, and I smiled and fell back asleep.
I never really asked her to come, and if anything, I had wished she had gone to my mother in her time of need. I always wondered why she came to me, but maybe she came to all of us, and I was lucky enough to realize it and feel her.
So, I do know it is possible for a loved one to visit after passing...I am sure someone can help you contact your father, too.
Best of luck.
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#7
Somethings are better left alone.Just my thoughts,keep the faith.
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(07-27-2014, 08:34 AM)believer17 Wrote: I don't know if you believe in God or not but for me I always take comfort in being able to meet them again in heaven again. I won't waste much time in trying to make contact. I believe there are possible strong enough mediums who could help you but they are far and between. I also believe in what pix said. They visit you all the time, but you just aren't aware. So can comfort that they are still there with you in all the big moments, and moments you don't know. You can pray for them to visit you in your sleep because that's a possibility. I believe my sister has visited me in a dream and offered comforting words. Just live life because it's short.

This is very true, I have seen my mother in my dreams before plenty of times of need. I can speak from experience that our loved ones do visit us in our sleep and I feel it's because it's when your most comfortable and you can see, hear, and hug them when the dream is about over and you don't become hysterical, because your only subconscious.
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