Post Reply 
 
Thread Rating:
  • 1 Votes - 5 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Dear Friend attacked by psi vamp
04-01-2015, 08:03 AM
Post: #11
RE: Dear Friend attacked by psi vamp
Have you had any dreams of him after his death?
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
04-01-2015, 08:44 AM
Post: #12
RE: Dear Friend attacked by psi vamp
While something may have been draining him it could well have been his medical problems. Its impossible to say outside the situation. What I can tell you is this, you did all you could to help but if people don't want to change you cannot make them. The times you do eventually it backfires, sometimes a little, sometimes a lot.

And I get where you are coming from, Ive many who have come to me for help who have then just gone right back to the same situation. Its upsetting and frustrating but that's free will.

"Studies Show...Intelligent girls are more depressed, because they know what the world is really like.....She knows in society she's either a Devil or an Angel with no in between. She speaks in the third person, so that she can forget that she's me." ~Emily Autumn
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
04-01-2015, 08:56 AM (This post was last modified: 04-01-2015 09:00 AM by mari.)
Post: #13
RE: Dear Friend attacked by psi vamp
(04-01-2015 08:03 AM)Itheblaze Wrote:  Have you had any dreams of him after his death?

Two nights before he died I had one dream after another. In the last one he asked something and before I could respond, there was nothing. It was very abrupt. Either his spirit left his body at that point and he had no choice or perhaps someone came gave him meds per palliative care.

Not many dreams after he passed. I had another friend who passed and had several very lucid dreams about her. For as connected as I was to him, I never had that kind of dream. They were all just run of the mill kind of dreams. Pleasant, but not dramatic.

There have been two other events outside of dreams. On one occasion, something happened that had to be outside of chance and this song came on that very pointedly said "we" had to end and say goodbye. It was like a punch to the gut.

Then a few months later there was another song about staying connected but I am not so sure about that one. His family report a number of events that made them think he was still present but I have not had anything like that.

I have to say that overall, he seems to not be around me much at all. I was actually kind of surprised.

(04-01-2015 08:44 AM)Fair_Luminary Wrote:  While something may have been draining him it could well have been his medical problems. Its impossible to say outside the situation. What I can tell you is this, you did all you could to help but if people don't want to change you cannot make them. The times you do eventually it backfires, sometimes a little, sometimes a lot.

And I get where you are coming from, Ive many who have come to me for help who have then just gone right back to the same situation. Its upsetting and frustrating but that's free will.

Thank you. Yes, I think he or something was pushing us apart way back to the original time I posted.
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
Post Reply 


Forum Jump:


User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)